From pain to gratitude

It hurts! It hurts so much sometimes. This not being owned. They’re are times I want to rant and scream because I can remember how wonderful things are for me when I’m owned. How so much of my self doubt goes away more often than not. How wonderful it is to be guided even just […]

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Helping each other see ourselves

I was reading my list of affirmations from others and people’s favorite memories of me list tonight.  Sometimes there are memes and posts that say something to the effect of “you have to see your own worth before anyone with treat you as worth while”. And these drive me bonkers! I firmly believe that these […]

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Thoughts on cuffs work by slaves by me

Cuffs are worn as a sign of power. Wonder Woman, one of the major icons of female empowerment, wear cuffs.  Never forget these are a sign of your strength in flexibility.  The branch that bends does not break in a storm.  Wearing cuffs is a promise to yourself that you will maintain yourself as a […]

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Breaking breakup silence

One thing seldom discussed in our Power Exchange and Authority Transfer communities is breakups. Here’s is an edited journal about one of my M/s breakups. Hopefully by breaking the silence around this topic, we can get more discussions going on how to ethically end these relationships. Because I can vouch to you the words “you […]

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