April Update: first class of the month is Tuesday!

Colorado Leather Fest – you help us stay in business by attending

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A Healing Poem hits Home

This poem is really resonating with me today. For those who I haven’t told, I had a small stroke on Jan30th. It was not fun and almost all of Feb my primary focus has been on trying to recover and heal. Full healing can take 3-4 months with proper care. It’s been scary and exhausting. […]

Health update on me

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Dom/Sub? nope Just Always a slave

I recently posted on my Facebook about a medical challenge that I faced. You can find the full article here but in short, I’ve been going through some issues and ended up having to ask my doctor for a second opinion, as well as, report a facility for very inappropriate and unprofessional practices. And one […]

Recommended Book

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So glad I stood up for myself!

So glad I stood up for myself. Medical info about internal genitalia follows. My period has been going wonky for all of this year. In June I finally went to my pcp to talk about it. At this point I was bleeding 20 of 28 days each month! She put me on progesterone and sent […]

For all who are grieving or wanting to

I wrote this last year when SouthWest Leather Conference ended forever.  At least the one I knew did.  On the Third weekend of January in 2014, I attended my first ever leather conference and fell in love.  In 2016, I competed for and won the SouthWest Bootblack title.  For the next 2 years, I taught […]

My thoughts on 2020. What I didn’t know would happen is a long test on coping skills…

Journal entry1/1/2020 Had a good scene last night with an Awesome Woman. Kicking, stomping, picking, slapping all very good. Yet I didn’t feel that connection I crave when I play. I did get to cry some. The first tears I’ve shed since I found out Rue, my cat, was sick again. I really feel like […]